“s” for being straight

“hello, my name is thomas and i am straight,” he standt up and told his class.
“holly sh-t, are you serious?” then they started bully him

“hey guys, so, i am natalia and i am straight.” people were disgusted and she never appered in that support group again.

“so, mom, dad, i am straight.” her parents were mad, she had to leave their house.

“i know, it is weird, but… i am straight.” his friends left him and he end up in depression.

well, sounds funny and unrealistic, huh?
i have realized something. lgbtq community makes “coming outs” to say people they have different sexuality and people are surprised and…
but, just imagine, what if being gay would be ‘normal’ (quotation marks because lgbtq community IS normal, ok?) and if you were straight, people would be wondering. how would you feel about it? how would you feel if someone laughed at you and embarrassed you? this is not ok. and people should sence it!

sorry for being this sensitive, but i have to! i just can’t stand all these stereotypes, you know?

-mdnghtcffee

“d” for decision

“i’m in touch with someone,” i said to my best friend yesterday.
“oh, and?”
“and what?”
“i don’t know. how old is he?” she asked me after a while.
“eh…”
“that old?”
“nope,” in whispered.
“don’t tell me he’s younger th-”
“yes.”

–

i love her and she love me. she’s is really suportive in relationships and stuffs like that, but from this moment i started thinking about it.

i’m 18 and he’s 16. and he’s really fine – we understand each other. but now i started doubt. we are not together – we’re just friends, but he told me he want to be more than just friends. and… i started thinking about people. why is ok that older boy/man is in relationship with younger girl/woman, but when older girl/women is in relationship with younger boy/man people don’t find it ok? why?

i mean… there are gays, transgenders, bisexuals and it is ok, but when is 18 years old girl dating 16 years old boy people are acting weird (again, we are not together, this is just an example).

he’s texting me right now. and i’m smiling, because through these five days we know each other i’m always happy, when he text me to ask how i am and what am i doing. i like him – because he cares about little things and he’s always trying to make me happy.

the thing is – during writing this article i have realize something. doesn’t matter if you love someone you cannot have. doesn’t matter if you are in touch with someone younger or older. doesn’t matter if you love someone who is christian or atheist. doesn’t matter if people don’t support you – i do. the only thing matters is love. because if you love, everything is better. so, don’t be scared to love and don’t be scared to do everything for love. because… for what else would our lives be? it is just your decision, consider it well..

-mdnghtcffee

“g” for being gay

i still don’t understand, why people still hates lgbt community? is it because they are different? is it because they opposed the built system? is it because of their love?

when our world has been created, there were people. just people. there wasn’t something like gender supremacy, like black and white people, like europeans or americans or australians…
our first thought was: “we are people.”

and we are still people. but the times have changed and people these days are… there are… tbh i don’t know.

you support gays – there are people who judge you.
you don’t – there are people who judge you.
you don’t care – there are people who JUDGE YOU.

is it right? is it? i don’t think so.

look, there are homosexuals, heterosexuals, bisexuals, transgenders. and do you know what is similar to these people? yeah, p-e-o-p-l-e. people.

so, where’s the problem? maybe it’s our parents, who raise us and teach us, what is good and bad? maybe social media? maybe movies, where other people makes fun of gays? or people around us? our “friends?”

yeah, there are many people and many opinions and many religions and many traditions and many everything, but we should be proud of who we are, no matter if we are gays or heterosexuals. no matter if we are europeans or africans. no matter if we are christians or atheists or catholics.

we should be proud, we should love and we should support. because love and support is something important. it is for free and it makes other happy.
everytime i say something nice to someone, it makes me feel happy too. i feel so much better, because i helped him/her a little.
so, my advice? don’t take life so serious, love, make people happy.
and the most important – be happy. because although life is sometimes difficult, there are people who love.
i don’t know you, but i love you too. so, just smile and have a great day.

-mdnghtcffee